Spit play is a kink involving the sight, sensation, exchange, or symbolic use of saliva. That may include spitting into a partner’s mouth, slowly letting saliva fall onto their body, or using spit as part of a Dominant and submissive scene. The activity itself is simple. The psychology behind it usually is not. For one […]
Compulsory sexuality is the cultural assumption that everyone naturally wants sex, should pursue sex, and will eventually organize an important part of their life around sexual relationships. Most people never notice this assumption. It feels too normal to examine. Dating is expected to become sexual. Flirting is assumed to communicate sexual interest. Romantic relationships are […]
A vanilla Dom is generally understood as a Dominant who enjoys power exchange but has little interest in other BDSM activities. They may enjoy giving instructions, setting expectations, leading a partner, or controlling parts of a sexual or romantic relationship without necessarily enjoying bondage, impact play, elaborate protocols, sadomasochism, or traditional BDSM equipment. That is […]
