A Wedgie Fetish is where an individual is aroused by watching, giving, or experiencing a wedgie.
Why Do People Like Wedgies?
The two biggest factors seem to be pain play and humiliation.
A common roleplay scenario would involve “bullying”, where the Dominant would be the bully and the submissive would be the victim.
Another roleplay scenario would be being the guardian or partner of the victim, who is making a deal with the bully. The victim can be present for a cuck scenario, or made-up for narrative purposes.
For instances where there are more players, if there is a school-theme, there can be a public humiliation or “ganging up” towards the victim role-player.
If the focus is more on the sensation of a wedgie, then the type of undergarment can provide varying physical sensations to the pelvic area or a unique visual.
Some players who take a closer interest to the underwear itself will give more consideration to the fabric, color, condition, etc.
3 Tips for Wedgie Play
Use underwear that can stretch. This means using fabrics that are cotton and polyester. These have more give and can allow for an atomic wedgie or visual of intensity.
Know your partner’s motivations. Is this a psychological kink or a physical one? If they like the sensation of the wedgie, they you can focus more on the force and presentation. If it’s psychological, then you can consider more mental play.
The best wedgies are a surprise. Whether during dedicated playtime or impromptu CNC, make sure you have your partner’s consent to having a wedgie. Make sure nobody is around or working with machinery, tools, or doing something important.
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