Here are some tips on how to travel kinky, pack kinky, and some tips for playing in a hotel room.
How to Pack Kinky
It’s smart to pack things by space and weight. For example, some heavier things to pack would be boots and leather outfit pieces.
You want to keep the hefty items to a minimum and bring a variety of smaller items so you bring more with the limited travel packing space you have.
That said, keep some spare room in your luggage if you plan on buying things during your travels.
You can roll up your gear to take up the least amount of luggage space. After you finish packing up your stuff, take one last look and take an honest inventory of what you need and what can be left behind.
When it comes to toys, you want to pack them more carefully.
For example, you want to pack each silicone toy in it’s own baggie to keep them from physically touching each other and rubbing color and material together.
You want to keep your toys in baggies between clothes.
Let TSA go through your things calmly. They’ve seen everything. So don’t be afraid of telling them what toy is what.
Make sure you bring snacks. Keep liquids sealed tightly and in a bag.
You can bring a powdered lube if you don’t like the idea of taking a fluid lube.
You don’t want to bring any items that could be interpreted as restraints, such as cuffs, shackles, etc. You also don’t want anything that can be considered a weapon.
Toys that are safe to carry-on: rope, dildos, butt plugs, cloth, leather, belts, etc.
You can’t go wrong with bringing everyday items that can by used as kink toys; belts, rosary steel necklaces, ties, etc.
How to Play in a Hotel Room
You can rearrange the room and get creative with it.
Maybe flip the bed over and use it as a St. Andrews Cross, or use an ottoman to tie your sub down to.
Make sure you use a Do Not Disturb sign. Tip the maid.
Use a ball gag if you’re going to be noisy and the walls are thin.
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