In this post, we talk about ideas surrounding how to give an orgasm with rimming.
How to Give an Orgasm with Rimming
- Talking about licking his anus
Communication is still essential in sex – and most situations. This is especially true when you eat ass. You may need to politely inform your partner that he or she needs to shave or clean up.
Even with the best intentions, these discussions can go awry. Someone using the wrong words, tone of voice, or timing may be less receptive. Surprising someone when they are busy, tired, or hungry, for example, may not be the best way to start a conversation. Furthermore, some issues should not be discussed during sex because they can ruin the mood.
Communication also helps reassure your partner, which keeps you connected and allows them to relax and appreciate you eating their ass. Relaxation is also essential for integration. Tense muscles are unsuitable for pegging or anal sex (read more about pegging).
If eating ass is your idea (or even her idea), you may need to address her apprehension. Ass play usually makes men more nervous than women since there are preconceptions of homosexuality, despite… having sex with a woman.
- Practicing butt licking and safety
Before you start eating her ass, you should make sure it’s a safe activity. All sexual practices carry some level of risk. As with any sexual activity, anal sex can transmit STIs. STIs can spread more easily during anal activity.
According to studies:
- women who engage in analingus have higher levels of C. albicans, a type of yeast found in the genital tract
- gay men who engage in ass eating activities are more likely to be infected with E. histolytica.
If bacteria from the anus spread, they can cause infections in the mouth or vagina. Finally, if your partner has a bacterial infection or a stomach virus, you could catch it while rimming.
Here are some gastroenteritis symptoms in case you get sick after eating ass:
- nausea
- vomiting
- fever
- diarrhea
- weight loss
Using a barrier is smart even if there is no penetration. Dental dams are squares of plastic sheeting that you can place against your partner’s body when performing oral stimulation. It also acts as a barrier, which can make rimming more comfortable.
When applying lube to a dental dam, keep it between the barrier and your partner for comfort. Apply lube to both sides if switching to penetration (you can use anal training to take on larger toys) and use a condom.
In the event of a pinch, open a condom and use it as a dental dam.
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