Cigar Play, or Ash Play, is a form of play that uses cigars.
Why People Like Cigar Play
People like the aroma, taste, and aesthetic of cigars. There’s also a masculine aspect to smoking cigars, as well as a phallic appearance.
How to Smoke a Cigar
You inhale a cigar differently than how you smoke a cigarette.
With a cigarette you inhale the smoke into your lungs. But with a cigar, you only inhale to bring the smoke into your mouth so you can taste its flavor.
There are three types of cigar:
Mild – This is great for beginners.
Medium – There is more flavor in a medium cigar than mild.
Bold – These cigars can be overpowering if you don’t work up to it.
Natural cigars are more mild, while maduro cigars are darker and bolder.
You measure cigars by inches and then gauges. Shapes can be torpedo and box-pressed.
How To Do Ash Play
Using the ash from a cigar, you can:
- feed it to your bottom
- rub it on the sub’s skin
- and other creative ideas you come up with
You can also play doing Ash Service, which is:
- having your sub prepare your cigar for you
- using your sub as an ash tray by feeding the ash to them
- having your sub kneel and hold an ash tray for you
Ways To Do Smoke Play
You can blow smoke into your partner’s mouth.
You can also get a gas mask with a hose and blow smoke into the hose. You can sometimes attach the cigar to the hose too.
Smoke & Ash Play Safety
- Do not tap off ash onto your sub’s face; eye and nasal damage
- Have an inch of ash on your cigar, then carefully break the cool ash onto your submissive’s tongue
- The burnt ash is not harmful, it has texture, and the bad stuff has already been burnt out
- For temperature play, you want the ash to have length before rubbing it onto anyone’ skin
- Have a steady hand
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