Here are some reader’s questions for pet players:
What is Pet Play?
Pet Play is a roleplay where you are in the headspace of an animal.
Some types of pet play include: Puppy Play, Pony Play, Kitten Play, Dragon Play, etc.
Why do people like Pet Play?
Animals can have a carefree and more loving nature that some people want to tap into.
People also like pet play for the sexuality, relaxation, physicality, community, and plain extracurricular fun.
How do people pick their animal for pet play?
Yes, they usually pick the animal breed that most excites them or they feel have a relatable temperament.
Popular Gear for Pet Play
Although gear is not necessary, here are a few items to try out:
- Hoods / Masks / Muzzle
- Tail
- Chewtoy
- Bit gag
Are there female pups?
Yes, it just so happens that most puppies in pet play are male. Half and half are hetero and homosexual.
Tips for Puppies in BDSM Pet Play
- Get comfortable with acting like a puppy; crawl on all fours, bark, chew on toys, roll around, get gear, etc.
- Have fun and you will get into the puppy play headspace.
- Talk to your Handler or Owner about why you like pet play and what you want to play out in a scene.
- Don’t force yourself into the headspace, instead relax and get in a pet pose and just let it overtake you without thinking about it
How To Pet Play & Get into Pup Space
| Type of Pet Play | Description |
|---|---|
| Short-term Pet Play | Something you do on occasion. |
| Permanent Play | More of a lifestyle. |
| Domesticated Play | Roleplaying as someone else’s pet (non-sexual). |
| Feral Play | Roleplaying as wild animals. |
| Dark Pet Play | Pet Play + Edge Play, with some occasional CNC. |
What is a Handler in Pet Play BDSM?
A Handler, or Owner, is the human Top during pet play.
However, pet play is fun enough that there are far more submissives or pets in pet play than there are Tops.
Within puppy play, there are Alpha Pups that dominate other pups within pet space.
Advice for New Pup & Pet Players
Don’t be afraid of putting yourself out.
Don’t let shame keep you from trying. Note: Shame is why you don’t do anything you want to try.
Sometimes all you need to really delve into pet play is some equipment. Although you don’t need any, sometimes a mask or hood is all you need to really get into that headspace effortlessly.
Have knee pads and other protective gear if you’re going to be particularly physical for your type of play.
Get involved with the community—it’s a pretty wholesome community.
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