In this post, we go over what is blindfolding and BDSM tips.
Sexual activity and having one’s eyes covered in a blindfold go together like peanut butter and jelly. Following these simple steps, you can bring the excitement of blindfolding into the bedroom.
Jessica O’Reilly, who authored “The New Sex Bible,” claims that eye patches are the most widely used contraceptive method. “The sensory deprivation you experience when you eliminate the sense of sight only increases your perception of the other senses, making every touch and whisper even more titillating.”??
In addition to heightening one’s senses, the bandages ease the pressure of performing well and the inhibitions that come with it. When you blindfold your partner, you permit yourself to let go of any concerns regarding your self-esteem that might be getting in the way of your enjoyment of the experience.
Blindfolded sex
To have fun with the blindfolded sex game, you don’t have to go to the “hardcore” level. Blindfolds are a sexy, easy, and fun accessory to have. Here are some helpful hints for utilizing them while engaging in sexual activity:
- Experiment with power play. Blindfolds are a fun and effective way to rebalance the power dynamic in a relationship on a temporary or permanent basis. If you are not typically the dominant partner in sexual activity, blindfolding your partner may instill in you the self-assurance necessary to occasionally take control of the situation.
- Take advantage of your dominant streak. Wrap a blindfold around your partner and then ask them to complete a series of tasks for you. Give them instructions on having amazing oral sex, or let them run their hands all over your body as you enjoy it. You will have a great time watching them investigate your body as if it were the first time they had ever done so.
- Please your blindfolded partner. While your partner is blindfolded, you do things to them too. Kiss, caress and lick while deprived of sight. Then, change the pace or stop altogether to create waves of waiting. Slow down or don’t move until they beg you to touch them again.
- Get inspired by movies. In the movie 9 1/2 Weeks, Mickey Rourke blindfolded her with Kim Basinger in the kitchen and teased her with different foods. It was super-hot. You can do the same thing by creating a sexy and tasty buffet of foods to tempt and excite your blindfolded partner. Make sure you include plenty of goodies.
- Remember, it’s all about feeling. Being blindfolded increases the other senses. Run an ice cube on your partner’s body when you least expect it to enhance those intense senses.
- Give an erotic massage. Start with a treat and lightly swipe it over your blindfolded partner’s body. Once aroused, move on to teasing them lightly with your fingers. Add massage oil or lube and let your hands freely explore your lover’s favorite parts of the body. Alternate your touch between bright circles on small areas and long, firm strokes on larger areas, such as their limbs. The change in feelings will send them over the edge and leave them begging for more.
- Blindfolded masturbate for your partner. Many couples love the idea of mutual masturbation, but some people are too clumsy to “perform” ?? for their partner. One way to overcome this is to try masturbating for your partner by wearing a blindfold. When you can’t see your lover watching you, you will feel more comfortable, you can focus solely on your pleasure, and your partner will enjoy the show.
- Add sex toys to the mix Whether it’s your blindfolded partner’s first time, or if you’ve seen new ones, add sex toys while blindfolded sweeten things up and turn everyone on. Start slowly when introducing a new toy, so you don’t scare your partner.
- Use ear plugs too. When you limit sight and sound, you dramatically increase the sense of touch. Feathers, soft fabrics, and fur will create a pleasant sensory overload.
- You don’t need to spend money on blindfolds. While there are a ton of cool bandages on the market, you don’t need to spend money to enjoy being blindfolded during sex. Silk scarves, nylon tights, and other clothing items make beautiful bandages.
- Make sure the room is safe. It probably sounds like common sense, but accidents do happen and you don’t want to have to explain to an ER nurse how you got a gash on your leg that requires stitches if it’s not needed.
A word of caution. Men are visual creatures, so your partner may be blindfolded to lessen his arousal. On the other hand, women tend to have the opposite reaction to being blindfolded. Release their inhibitions so they feel more inclined to fantasize, increasing their arousal.
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