A Biting Fetish is where someone gets sexual satisfaction by biting someone or getting bitten.
Sexual Vampirism is where someone likes to bite with the intention of drawing blood.
People like biting and getting bit because it just feels good and it’s an easy way of expressing sadomasochism in the bedroom.
We also like it because it wakes up the nerves better than light kissing and caressing, which gets us more in touch with our bodies in the present moment.
There is also something primal and carnal that comes into play. This is why vampirism roleplay is popular in BDSM.
8 Biting Styles from Kama Sutra
Gudhaka: This is a light, discreet bite on your partner’s lower lip.
Uchhunaka: This bite leaves a faint mark on either the ears or cheeks.
Bindu: This bite is a nip that leaves a mark the size of a tiny seed beside the ears, cheeks, or sometimes forehead.
Bindu Mala: This is biting across an imaginary path around the neck, breasts, or groin area. Imagine each light bite is leaving a necklace made of bite marks.
Pravalamani: This is a bite using the upper teeth.
Mani Mala: This is biting across an imaginary path around the breasts or thighs using the upper teeth.
Khandabhraka: These bites are light and widely places under the breasts in no particular pattern.
Varaha charvita: These are harder, but still sensual bites or nibbles.
Tips for Biting
Start off low pressure. Our teeth are meant to tear meat apart, and we don’t actually want to do that to our partners.
Take bigger bites. You do this because if you take smaller bites, they will feel more like a pinch and those aren’t as pleasurable. Unless you like that of course!
The best places to bite are the buttocks, shoulders, the outer arms and thighs, boobs, nibble ears, nipples, neck.
Go slow because everyone has a different pain tolerance, so work your way up.
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