Anal Play is when you play with the anus using your hands, tongue, etc.
The best way to figure out how a woman likes anal play is to ask her what she likes.
5 Quick Anal Play Tips
Before doing any anal play, make sure to clean the anus. Go take a shower and clean around the anus and clean into the butthole. You both can clean eachother’s anus since you’re gonna play with the butthole anyway.
Graze your partner’s inner thigh with gentle strokes. Get some sensation going, whether using a feather or impact toy, etc.
Open up those cheeks and graze your fingers on and across the anus. Apply lube since that hole doesn’t make any.
Be hygenic when there is anal play. You might wanna wash your hands or mouth after fiddling with your partner’s bootyhole. This way you’re not transferring your partner’s ass germs to their face or mouth.
Lick up and down the anus. Make sure you’re doing it comfortably for you, and pay attention to how your partner is physically and verbally reacting. After the session, ask them about it.
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have.
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Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
