Ball Busting is the act of inflicting pain on a player’s testicles. This can include: hitting, slapping, kicking, and squishing the testicles.
Ball busting is considered a form of CBT, or Cock + Ball Torture.
This is not for everyone.
For example, I’m already cringing and squeamish at the thought of my balls being tampered with like that. They are far too ticklish and sensitive—hell to the no!
However, I used to have a friend who loved it when a woman would crush his balls while she wore sexy footwear.
Why do people like cock and ball torture / ball busting?
Ball Busters are the Tops that like giving out the pain.
Bustees are the bottoms that like receiving the pain.
This can easily be seen as a power play since the bottom is exposing their physical vulnerability to their Top’s whim.
It can even be seen as “serving up” their testicles to their Dom as a tribute.
Beginner Tips for Ball Busting CBT in BDSM
Do testicles pop with enough pressure? Fucking christ! I’m having a hard time writing this! But no, the balls won’t pop—BUT you can tear the lining.
Go slow to build up a pain tolerance. It takes time to build up a pain tolerance while still allowing the pain to be pleasurable.
Here are some ways to slowly build pain tolerance for the testicles:
- Lightly slapping the balls
- Slowly stepping on them
- Slowly grabbing and squeezing the sack
- Small, light punches to the sack
Be barefoot when you step on balls. Tap the balls with your feet, then fondle them. You want to fondle the balls as “check-ins” to make sure you didn’t tear or rupture anything.
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