In this post, we go over how to fist someone.
Fisting is a form of sex in which the hand is inserted into the vagina or anus in various degrees of penetration.
initially more popular among straight women, it quickly caught on among the queer community too!
It is a harrowing sexual practice because it can result in physical discomfort. The more you do it, the better you get at it!
Furthermore, Fisting is not restricted to intimate acts between a man and a woman; it can be performed while a man is masturbating alone.
Before doing Fisting keep in mind that…
It’s always a good idea to pay attention to your hygiene… But wait, there’s more! I believe that we are indispensable…
The lubricant is just as good!
The following considerations should be kept in mind when performing a Fisting:
- Better clean complete the sexual area where you are going to do a Fisting
- Wash your hands and part of your arm depending on what you are going to introduce
- It is highly recommended to use latex gloves, even long-sleeved
- Always lubricate the area. It is better that you have a good lubricant and a good quantity… better than enough than not missing
- Prepare condoms, since when fisting many blood vessels in the anus and vagina will remain open, so if you are going to have more sex later… it is better to use protection
Fist Techniques for How to Fist Someone
To begin, and as you are already aware, there are two types of fisting… Vaginal Fisting and Anal Fisting
So, to provide you with as much information and detail as possible, I will explain each point by point!
Perform Anal Fisting
Anal Fisting. Anal Fisting is more common among homosexuals than among heterosexuals. Although it is true that many heterosexual women enjoy anal sex… and some of them do not mind progressing to the next level…
So, if you want to perform or participate in Anal Fisting, you must take the following steps:
- With dedication and depth, cleans the anus area.
- Put some latex on.
- With your fingers, apply a generous amount of special lubricant for fisting.
- The fingers are introduced all at once in the Fist or Anal Fisting. If you think it’ll be difficult, use fisting gel to relax the ass muscles or use an anal sex toy to stimulate it beforehand.
- Put your thumb under the four stretched fingers to stretch them. Squeeze your hand so that your fingers are as close together as possible.
- Begin by slowly inserting your fingers! With extreme caution!
- Make very smooth movements from bottom to top and vice versa once the hand is inside! (Be careful not to do this to the beast, as it may cause the anal muscles to retract!)
- You can slowly relax your hand once the anus is relaxed! You’ll see how the anus extends from right to left this way!
- Continue the up-and-down movement with patience.
- You’ve got your entire hand inside now! It’s time to lubricate the doll for a smoother entry! Also, proceed with caution!
- When everything is inside, close your fist with your hand and begin doing the “put-pull” movement until orgasm is reached!
You must take into account in Anal Fisting
If it hurts a lot, it’s not good! It’s as plain and simple as this! So as the saying goes:
“With a lot of patience and saliva, the elephant put it into the ant”
It is also not recommended to go up to the forearm as it can be very dangerous, so I would advise you to avoid it.
Do Vaginal Fisting
The G-Spot, uterus, and posterior vaginal cavity will all be stimulated!
Let’s face it… You’re going to have a nervous breakdown!
So, here’s how to use Vaginal Fisting to see the stars.
- Start by stimulating your partner’s vaginal area! Slowly and comfortably!
- Also, wear a latex glove.
- To apply with your fingers, you’ll need a water-based lubricant.
- Start by inserting a finger and making circular motions. When you see that you can already put two… you’ll know what to do with the third!
- Continue to stimulate the clitoris so that your lover relaxes as it begins to naturally lubricate.
- When it appears to be more dilated, insert your third finger using the direct stimulation of the clitoris technique combined with circular movements.
- If necessary, you can see applying water-based lubricant to the fingers to increase lubrication.
- It’s time to go for the Clitoris and the G-Spot now that you’ve already put four fingers in it! (WARNING! If you experience pain, you should stop and wait a little longer because it isn’t ready yet!)
- It’s already dilated to the point where you can stick your thumb in it like in Anal Fisting.
- It’s your turn to lubricate the wrist; apply the lubricant to the wrist for improved sliding.
- It’s time to slowly make a fist.
- And then there’s the masturbation!
When it comes to Vaginal Fisting, there are a few things to consider.
Don’t even consider taking your hand away from your lover when he’s having the wildest and hardest orgasm he’s ever had!
You’ll avoid injuries this way, and he’ll be able to fully enjoy the orgasm.
Once the orgasm is over, slowly withdraw your hand… yes, even more lubricant is highly recommended to make the exit easier!
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