Are you wondering how to peg your partner with a strap-on?
“Traditionally”, pegging is when a cisgender, heterosexual male gets anal penetration from his cishet female partner with a strap-on dildo. It’s a controversial word, though.
As our knowledge of gender and sexuality grows, some people wonder why this isn’t just called anal sex, strap-on sex, or just sex. Why do cishet guys need their word for anal penetration when the rest of us have been enjoying it just fine? Powell agrees with this way of thinking, but they also say that giving an action its word, like fisting, squirting, or pegging, can help us talk and think about what we’re doing.
Many cis straight men are interested in pegging because when they find out there’s a word for it and that it’s common, they feel a lot better about wanting it.” Talking about pegging can make it seem more normal and dispel old myths about cishet men and prostate pleasure.
The strap-on is a dildo attached to the body with a harness and is used to penetrate his or her partner, usually by stimulating oneself. It can be used by a woman to penetrate a man anally or another woman vaginally, anally, or orally. A man can use it in the event of a breakdown to compensate for an erection defect, practice a double penetration, or penetrate several partners simultaneously. The dildo is usually fixed in place of the male genitalia, but it can also be fixed elsewhere (on a thigh, stomach, jaw, etc.) to vary the pleasures and positions.
The various types of models
Strap-on dildos, like classic dildos, come in various styles, including realistic models that mimic the shape of the penis, slightly conical and stylized classic models, and even curved ones that are specifically designed to stimulate the G-spot or the prostate. Some models include molded testicles for easier attachment. The materials used vary, and it is up to you to decide which ones appeal to you the most: silicone, latex, glass, ceramic, and so on. Some models vibrate, while others come with a vibrating egg attached to the base of the dildo to increase the pleasure for both the wearer of the strap-on and the one being penetrated. A woman can thus stimulate her clitoris while penetrating her or her partner’s foot!
What’s the deal with the strap-on?
This millennial fantasy comes true thanks to the strap-on: women can finally have a penis! It allows them to finally embody their phallic power fantasies, whether facing a man to equal him in attributes or facing a woman to fulfill her like a man. It also allows for the multiplication of penetration possibilities with real pelvic movements, as in a classic coitus, whereas a man or woman using a traditional dildo can only do so with the force of the wrist. It’s a sex toy that, visually, requires a lot of imagination.
A strap-on can also be attached to any part of the body to make interesting combinations. For example, attaching it to your jaw allows you to give oral while penetrating your partner vaginally. You can also attach a strap-on to objects… we’ll let your imagination speak on this.
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Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
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Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have.
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