Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) is where a penis owner is humiliated and riduculed for their penis measurement.
This form of humiliation largely revolves around the idea that the penis owner has an unworthy penis.
One way this is done is by grabbing a ruler and physically measuring the penis and consensually laughing at the penis owner to induce feelings of shame.
Here are some lines typically used in verbal and emotional SPH:
“Is that it?”
“I could never feel that inside me”
“You will never be able to satisfy anyone with that”
Why do people like small penis humiliation?
Many men and some women place lots of importance on the size of a penis, as if it’s a reflection of one’s manhood and worthiness. In reality, this is not true, however, this form of play leans into this.
SPH plays with the penis owner’s sense of security in their own body and their desirability as a sex partner.
That said, you don’t actually need a small penis to want to engage in this form of play. When I refer to my penis in conversation, whether text or in-person, I call it my “wee wee“.
Why? Because it’s funny, makes it sound small, and because I don’t measure my masculinity by the size of my penis.
However, there are people who are insecure in their penis size and may choose to engage in small penis humiliation as a way to face their insecurity.
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Some people also use small penis humiliation as an indirect way to challenge how they are not measuring up to their own beliefs about being a man.
This is also has sadistic appeal in addition to its masochistic appeal.
For example, usually the person who is degrading the penis owner is a woman. Given the penis privilege men have, there can be a sense of retribution or weird justice in humiliating this consenting man.
3 Tips for Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)
Force shrinkage by being cold. This means getting your hands cold before touching the bottom’s penis. You can also use an ice pack for some temperature play. Another idea is that you can demand that the penis owner take a cold shower.
Have trouble finding the penis. Before you start verbally putting down your partner, put on your glasses as a desperate attempt to find his penis. You can even demand that he play with himself, and when he gets stiff then you vaguely start to notice it.
Punish them for having a small wee. Not only is it an insult that they would bring… this to your presence, they must be punished for having never grown into a man. Have them do a demeaning task as a punishment for having such a pathetic penis.
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