Here are the five most popular sexual fantasies women have:
Encountering a Celebrity is often a top sexual fantasy. This is why celebrity crushes are a thing.
Being kidnapped, sexually coerced, raped. This is one of those irrational desires we humans have, where we wouldn’t actually want this to happen in reality, but within the confines of roleplay it can be very fun and sexy.
This can be done using Consensual Non-Consent. Where you and your partner basically say:
“When I am wearing this bracelet, you are allowed to be sexually aggressive and penetrate me even if I say ‘Stop’ or ‘No’. But you must stop if I say this special safeword X, and here are my limits and boundaries. Otherwise, have at me.”
There’s more to the negotiation of CNC play that you can check out here.
Power imbalance with sexual tension. Some examples of this would be Boss/employee, Professor/student, etc. Everyone knows you’re not supposed to, so the risk is exciting.
Romantic Love-Making. This is much less common than the previous mentioned. It involves candles, dim lights, silk sheets, sexy smells, and probably poetic rizz.
Ravishing Perfection. The right moment, the perfect amount of touch, foreplay, no explanations, no need for guidance, her partner just knows the right way to do everything without words exchanged and she gets all her jollies. Unrealistic, but can be made real with communication discussed beforehand.
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
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Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.
Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
