Here are five tips to help fix female sexual anxiety:
You deserve your jollies. Whether its with solo play or with a partner. You are worth recieving pleasure and not just giving it. It’s a birthright.
Your body deserves your confidence. Bodies come in different shapes and sizes. Attraction is not based on what advertisers tell you. Attraction is irrational, it’s a felt experience that others have for you, regardless of what others say to them.
You are a sexual being. You have feelings of sexual pleasure and arousal because you are also meant to experience sexual pleasure. The same way men are expected to “spread their seed”, your vagina is meant to receive that seed.
Discuss sex with your partner. Communication is the most important part of a relationship. Refusing to communicate is committing to not make an aspect of a relationship work. In this case, it’s related to sex. If you don’t communicate your desires, you can’t expect to get them met. How you feel, what you think, and what you want matters—because you matter.
Be mindful of medication. Sometimes medication will affect your sex life due to side effects. Make sure you take a look at potential side effects and how it could affecting your sexual confidence.
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
The links above are NOT affiliate links. The product links are the exact same products I happily own from trusted vendor Sinful Goods.
Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.
Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
