Here are some tips for how to send kinky texts with your partner:
Get permission to send kinky text messages. This is assuming you both are consenting kink partners. If someone isn’t looking to get these sort of messages from you, it could be disturbing and destructive sending these messages.
Know this won’t always end with phone sex. Keep in mind that the person on the other end might be busy. So make it lighthearted where you both can jump in and out throughout the day.
Don’t criticize them during the sexting. You want to establish boundaries before ever texting. You can give your instructive criticism after you both finish sexting. This way the mood isn’t shut down and you can still learn eachother’s sext style while taking note of what you like and don’t like.
Ask if they’re open to sharing eachother’s fantasies. This gives you both an opening to start sexting and find out what they’re interested in.
Afterwards, let them know what you found the most hot. This opens up the possibility for a consensual experience in person. Or at least more consistent fun sexting.
Have an understanding of your partner’s timing. This will give you both an idea of what’s the best time to send each other sexy messages so you can best indulge eachother.
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
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Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.
Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
