In this post, we go over readers’ questions about puppy play:
Puppy Play is a form of animal roleplay where players act like canines during a scene.
Can couples puppy play without Handlers? Yes. You don’t need Handler(s) if your play doesn’t call for one.
Is pup play sexual? No, it doesn’t always have to be sexual. But yes, lots of people like to have sexual pup play.
What does a collar mean in puppy play? Collars can mean there is a dynamic going on between the wearer and another player. What that dynamic is will be unique per bond.
Does you need to have a collar to be in a pack? No, you don’t need a collar to signify that you are in a pack. You don’t need collars to establish packs. You don’t need a collar to engage in puppy play either.
Can there be a Handler/pup dynamic that doesn’t interfere with real-life intimate relationships?
Yes, but there needs to be communication between partners. If there is a Handler/up relationship that takes up a lot of time, maybe a boyfriend or girlfriend will find that inconvenient. Make sure you communicate and figure out a way for everyone’s needs to be met.
How to get involved in puppy play? Go online and check out Puppy and Handler (PAH) groups on Facebook, IG, or other social media.
What is the attitude towards pup play from the overarching BDSM Community? People who aren’t keen on the pup community will think it’s a fad. But those who are into it will continue to help it grow and we’ll see how things go from there.
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DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
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Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
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