Sounding for BDSM Beginners (How to Sound Someone)

In this post, we go over ideas about sounding for beginners and how to sound someone.

You can perform urethral sounding, or “penis sounding,” by sticking an object into the urethra, which is the opening through which urine exits the body. This procedure is used in the medical field to clear obstructions in the urethra. It is common practice amongst some subcultures to use urethral sounding as a method of subduing the sub during BDSM play.

Urethral sounding can be performed in three different ways. It’s important to note that there are two types of sounding. The next step is plunging, which entails inserting the rod down to the bladder, past the prostate. Finally, the urethra is stuffed with thick rods to increase its diameter.

The purpose of urethral sounding is unclear.

Urinary sounding can be enjoyable even though it may sound painful. For this reason, “p-spot” orgasms can be achieved when the urethra has direct access to the prostate.

Thousands of nerve endings line the urethra as well. As a result, the sensation of gliding a rob against such delicate skin may be exhilarating.

To increase the intensity of the experience, many men and women use urethral sounding in conjunction with traditional masturbation. Using a sounding rod during blow jobs, hand jobs, and other sexual acts can also enhance the experience for some people, though this is not common.

Putting something up your urethra is considered “taboo” for various reasons. The “forbiddenness” of the act appeals to many people, and as a result, many develop sound fetishes.

Finally, in BDSM, subordinates can be punished with male urethral sounding. Their submissive urethras are controlled by their dominant partners by inserting curved sounding rods into their urethras. The curved rod is extremely painful if they get an erection before they are allowed!

Is Urethral Sounding Harmful to Your Health?

Penis sounding must be done properly. You can potentially do serious damage if you aren’t careful.

The urethra is made up of delicate skin that can easily be damaged if you’re rough with it. When you cut your skin, harmful bacteria can enter the open wound and cause a UTI (urinary tract infection).

Furthermore, when you use the “plunging” method of urethral sounding, you insert the rod into your body as far as possible until it rests near your bladder. If you poke your bladder too hard, it can become irritated or punctured, resulting in a trip to the emergency room.

Finally, if you insert the sounding rod too far into your body, it may become stuck. If this happens, you’ll need to see a doctor for assistance, and you’ll have to tell them the embarrassing truth about what you were doing!

How to Perform Urethral Sounding in a Safe Manner

Pay attention to the following safety tips to avoid the consequences mentioned above:

  • Before and after playtime, sterilize your sounding rob. For 3 to 5 minutes, boiling water is the best way to sterilize a sounding rod. If you can’t boil your rod, try cleaning it with antibacterial soap and water instead.
  • Always take it slowly and cautiously. Never poke your urethra with your sounding rod and hope for the best. Slowly walk and stop if you feel any discomfort. You could puncture your urethral wall or an organ if you go too fast. Take it slowly and pay attention to your body’s signals for the best results.
  • Use a lot of lubes. Because the urethra does not self-lubricate, sticking a non-lubricated rod up there will be very uncomfortable. Apply plenty of lube to your rod before inserting it to make things easier on your body. If you’re using a silicone rod, make sure to use a water-based lube or your toy will be damaged.
  • Before and after each session, urinate. Before and after each penis sound session, make sure your system is cleared. Urinating is the best way to do this. This will assist in flushing any harmful bacteria or germs from your urethra, making things safer.
  • Go to the doctor if anything goes wrong. Tell your doctor the truth about what you were doing and be honest with them. They’ll assist you, and they might even give you some pointers on how to avoid harming yourself in the future. Going to the doctor about a sex toy injury can be humiliating, but it is necessary to avoid serious injury.

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