How to Use Handcuffs for Kinky Fun

In this post, we go over how to use handcuffs for kinky fun.

Since the beginning of time, sex and handcuffs have been close companions. This is because many people find the prospect of engaging in sexual activities while their hands are restrained to be very exciting. Nevertheless, it is essential to consider some recommendations to turn this relationship into a pleasant and remarkable experience for both parties involved.

Take your sex life to the next level with these four positions while wearing handcuffs.

The Kinky Missionary

How you do it: Carol Queen, Ph.D., staff sexologist at Good Vibrations, explains, “The person on the receiving end lies on her back, hands overhead and cuffed. If the bed has legs to loop the cuff’s chain or a length of rope, you can add a second pair of ankle cuffs.” At the top, the person in charge is probably engaged in illicit conversation.

It feels so good: “Missionary work is great for people who like full-body contact and getting to know people face-to-face,” she says. “This lets those parts stay very important and adds a bit of power play: hands over head and bound exposes the breasts and makes her feel more like she’s being ravaged. If someone likes bondage, being stuck in one place and being raped are usually part of the fun. The “top” gets the great feeling of being in charge, and the “bottom” is there for the taking.”

Queening in Bondage

How you do it: “In this position, the person who wants to be in charge is on top. “Queening” is also known as “sitting on his face.” This is an oral sex position where the woman gets lovely licks while the man’s wrists are tied above his head. She must be careful not to put her weight on his arms when she settles in to be pleased. This could also be changed so that the woman is on top, but the bottom is handcuffed.

Why it feels so good: “One thing that the Fifty Shades of Grey reader doesn’t get is a positive look at a woman on top. “‘Queening’ is a very good tease position where the top person almost lowers herself onto the bottom person but doesn’t quite make contact… until their partner begs!”

Hands Behind Ankles

How you do it: “Lie down on the floor or bed on your stomach. You should lift your knees and reach back for your feet. Attach the handcuffs to your wrists so that they sit behind your ankles.

Why it feels so good: “This position can open you up so that the mons pubis, labia, and clitoris are easy to reach. It opens up your hip flexor muscles and flexes your glutes to give you a great stretch that makes you feel aroused and brings blood to your pelvis.

Standing Room Only

How you do it: “Find a place, like a towel bar or a hook on the wall, where you can handcuff your partner’s arms while standing up.” Once you have both hands above their head, tell them not to move. Just putting on handcuffs and forcing the arms back shows that this is where they will stay for a while, especially if you say it in a serious tone. It’s okay if some of the words and actions make you feel a little uncomfortable at first. Just go with it. Even though sex isn’t supposed to be perfect, it does get better when you push your limits (to a certain point). When both hands are held down, it’s up to the dominant person to start tease and surprise. You’re in charge, so tie up the arms, put on a blindfold, and experiment with different feelings.

Try kissing your partner on the lips and then slowly moving down, stopping to nibble and tease the nipples.

“Work on your oral skills, but don’t stop exploring. You’ll come back to that. Play with your partner’s senses. Warm oil from a massage candle, ice cubes, and wet kisses will excite your partner. “If they’re blindfolded, they won’t know what feeling is coming next, which will make it more mysterious and hotter. This session will end when you say so or when your partner can’t take it anymore and has to have sex with you.

She says it feels so good: It’s enjoyable for both of you because it’s mutually beneficial. Using handcuffs to amplify the roles of the characters makes the whole thing even more exciting.”

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