14 Booty-licious Anal Sex Tips for Butt Play

In this post, we are sharing lots of ideas and tips for anal sex and butt play:

3 Quick Anal Play Facts

Anal play is for everyone. It’s not just for women, it’s for men too.

Anal stimulation alone can cause someone to climax. This is because it’s full of nerve endings that can cause pleasure.

The butthole doesn’t permanently stretch out. It bounces back to it’s usual form.

6 Butt Play Tips for Bottoms

Knowing your body and how your anus works. Explore your body in the shower, stick a finger up there and discover your prostate.

Anal sex can be painful at first. Start with smaller dildos and work your way up in size. Use a generous amount of lube on both your anus and sex toy.

Try out different positions for anal penetration. You’ll learn what you enjoy and what your body agrees with. Here are some positions to try out:

  • Missionary
  • Bent over bed
  • Doggy style
  • Lying on stomach
  • etc

Make sure you breathe (moaning is a sign you’re breathing). Similar to yoga, it helps you through the difficult parts until you get comfortable with it.

Relax so your partner can achieve full-depth penetration. The tension is what prevents further penetration, so breathe, know that you’re not gonna die, breathe again, maybe lean back into it.

Lube. Generous amounts of lube. Always.

8 Ass Play Tips for Tops

Have the bottom experience before you Top. This way you know what your bottom is going through.

Foreplay. You can ease your bottom into anal by eating them out or sticking your finger inside before you penetrate them. With your partner’s consent of course.

Start penetration off slowly. This is potentially the most painful part, so much sure to use lots of lube.

Keep lube within arm’s reach. You want this experience to be as pleasurable as possible for your bottom. Applying lube here and there helps a lot. Also keep a rag to wipe of your hands.

Use a condom. Anal play is the riskiest form of sex when it comes to STI’s like HIV and Hep-A.

Communicate. Always check-in and make sure the bottom is comfy and okay.

Don’t do ass-to-mouth. That’s not the move. Keep it as hygenic as possible.

Do aftercare for your bottom. Also make sure to check up on them the next day or so to make sure they aren’t experiencing sub drop.

Here are some resources I recommend:

DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.

Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.

Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.

Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.

Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)

Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)

Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)

The links above are NOT affiliate links. The product links are the exact same products I happily own from trusted vendor Sinful Goods.

Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.

Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.

DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.

Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.

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