What is ABDL? Adult Baby Diaper Lovers Terms

Adult Baby Diaper Lovers is a role play where there is an Adult Baby player and Diaper Lover players.

Infantilism is when adults regress to a child-like demeanor with a headspace where you forget your adult troubles and enjoy binkies, children’s movies, naps, and so on.

This is not pedofilia.

Adult Babies will prefer to act out different age ranges.

Little is the child-like persona these players may act out.

Big is essentially the Top, which could be Daddy or Mommy, etc.

Outside the bedroom the babies like to be treated like children to be playful.

Inside the bedroom the babies will do what their Big says and get into little space, or sub space.

Diaper Lover is someone who enjoys wearing diapers, using them, the “babiness” about them.

Having Padding is a term used for wearing or using a diaper.

Wetting is peeing oneself—which can be a form of piss play.

Messing is pooing oneself, which can be purposeful, or there can be mushy foods put in to simulate the feeling of a messy diaper.

There is a lot of crossover in this play and things like:

  • Pet Play
  • DDLG
  • etc

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