Here are some reader’s questions about pet play:
What is Pet Play?
Pet Play is a roleplay where you are in the headspace of an animal.
Some types of pet play include: Puppy Play, Pony Play, Kitten Play, etc.
How to Start Pet Play
Start researching different types of pet play and pick the animal or community that you best identify with.
Once you pick, look up communities within your preferred type of pet play.
Understand that every person is going to approach their pet play differently, because everyone has a different set of expectations for animal behavior.
To some, a kitten will be feisty and knock shit down tables, while others will lounge and stretch while meowing as if they’re in heat.
Do You Need Anything For Pet Play?
No, you don’t need any gear to get into the pet play mental space.
You can get gear and wear certain accessories to help encourage your roleplay, but it’s not a requirement by any means.
Most people absolutely love wearing a tail during pet play.
Do Pet Players Resonate w/ Certain Breeds?
Yes, they usually pick the animal breed that most excites them or they feel have a relatable temperament.
Some people resonate with shitzus because they like to be babied and pampered.
Others like being golden retrievers for that “gewd boy” praise and energy.
What are Pet Players favorite part of Pet Play?
You get to roleplay and be something that’s not human, while having fun and expressing yourself in a playful way.
Let go of all the adult stress for a moment and let yourself just be an animal.
Can a pup be a Top?
The Dom-equivalent to Tops that are puppies are called Alphas.
How do Owners Dom a Pet?
The Owners in a Pet Play dynamic will do the following during pet play:
- Guide and instruct the pet
- Play with the pet
- Give care and treats to the pet
Is puppy play only for cis men?
The puppy community is for everyone.
There is no rule saying non-heteros or non-male people aren’t allowed.
And no, not all puppies are men, and not all kittens are women.
This is for everyone who is interested!
Safety for Pet Play
- Wear safety pads when and where you need to
- Hydrate
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