20 Submissive Journal Writing Prompts

A submissive journal is where a sub can write out their innermost thoughts.

Although a Dominant can observe a sub’s journal, it is typically regarded as a submissive’s safe space.

Since submissives don’t have as much leeway for expression as Dominant, this safe space is necessary for a sub’s healthy emotional expression.

This means that a Dominant will not punish their sub for expressing their vulnerabilities in the journal. Otherwise, it would no longer be a safe space.

When there is no fear of punishment, the Dominant can get a deeper level of understanding of their submissive’s innermost thoughts and desires.

Submissive Journal Questions & Ideas

How do you maintain a submissive’s journal? A journal can be physical and located somewhere so the Dom can find it. Or you can make a shared digital document, so Dominants have easy access to their submissive’s journal

How do you decide what to write in a submissive journal? A Dominant can assign journal prompts to their sub. Or a sub can freely write what’s on their mind.

What are submissive journals about? These journals can be about anything. It can reflect emotions, unspoken conversations, and fantasies the sub is afraid to tell their Dom about.

How is a submissive journal useful? A journal can be a tool to teach someone how to communicate their emotions or it can be a safe place for venting. It’s also a way for growth in the relationship.

Submissive Journal Prompt Examples

  • What was your most memorable scene with your Dom?
  • What’s your favorite way to serve your Dom?
  • Write your favorite nicknames that your Dom calls you.
  • What are your favorite things about your Dom?
  • What are your favorite things about being a sub?
  • Write about your favorite scenes and kinks.
  • What are some new things you want to try with your Dom?
  • What expectations does your Dom set for you?
  • Write about what you are passionate about and how you would like your Dom to help you.
  • What has been frustrating you lately about your Dom?
  • What is one of your greatest fantasies you want to act out with your Dom?
  • Write about what happened the last time you broke a rule.
  • What’s your favorite part in your aftercare? Anything new you want to try?
  • Explain how was your last subdrop and how it made you feel.
  • Explain what happened the last time you used a safeword. How did you feel the last time you used a safeword?
  • What types of orders does your Dom give that you resist?
  • Write about the last time you displeased your Dom in public and how you could prevent it from happening again.
  • Are there any aspects of your life you feel you’ve been neglecting? Explain.
  • When was the last time you felt so overwhelmed, you felt you couldn’t keep up with the expectations of being your Dom’s sub? Is there any way you wish your Dom can help you when you feel overwhelmed?
  • What do you believe is the difference to service and submission?
  • What are your biggest turn-ons? How does they make you feel?
  • What are your biggest turn-offs? How does they make you feel?

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Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.

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