Spanking & Bare-handed Spanking in BDSM

In this post, we go over what is spanking and bare-handed spanking in BDSM.

Spanking & Bare-handed Spanking in BDSM

When you were younger, your mother could have spanked you if you got into trouble or refused to return home after playing outside with the neighbors. Those were not happy days.

However, as an adult, spanking can be fun and sexy.

Erotic spanking is a type of consensual impact play in which the buttocks, thighs, breasts, or other fleshy regions of the body are struck with hands or instruments.

When are spankings performed?

Spanks are performed during scenes, role-play, funishment, and sometime just because.

The whole point is to have fun with it. Both for the person being spanked and the one doing the spanking.

Why do people do it?

Because it’s simple and fun. Many of us in our culture grew up being spanked as children for punishment. When you’re a youngster, there’s an inherent power dynamic in it. It’s also worth mentioning that you’re spanking the ass since it’s in an erotic zone. It’s near to additional erogenous zones that we’d want to explore. Spanking sounds like a very reasonable thing to want to do in that situation.

What is Bare-handed Spanking?

The most common way to slap is with the bare-hand. It’s so much easier and it’s the way a lot of people do it. Here are some methods of spank:

Flat handed spanking: When your hand contact with the ass being spanked, it is open and flat. This is the most prevalent sort of hand spanking. This produces a satisfying thump as well as a sting. Of course, you may vary the intensity of a flat-handed spanking, but there are other things you can do to have a different effect.

Keep your palm in position and press down as hard as you can into the flesh as soon as you make contact with their bottom. Your blow’s force will be transmitted directly through their body, allowing them to experience the full force of your spank. Second, move your hand as soon as you make touch with it. This will have the opposite effect as the first, giving a razor-sharp stinging sensation without the impact. It is succinct and to the point.

Cupped hand: Cupping your hand makes such a noticeable difference. The difference in sound makes both a mental and physical alteration in how your partner reacts.

Swipe spank: If you’re looking for maximum pain, this is it. There are two ways to implement this technique: either by swiping from the top and moving downwards. Or by swiping upwards from the bottom. Both approaches yield results but I personally prefer spanking from the bottom up as it targets the more sensitive area of the buttocks and effectively communicates your intentions during a firm spanking.

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