Collaring is when a Dominant requests a submissives devotion and it’s recipricated by the sub being collared to signify their relationship.
A Collaring Ceremony is a typically private event that is similar to a wedding, except within the context of publicly presenting the power dynamic relationship in the BDSM community.
Collars can be made of leather, rope, metal, and so on, and there can be a lock on the collar, where the Dominant would hold the key.
The collar signifies that this submissive has been chosen for being owned.
The Dominant or Master typically chooses the collar based on their submissive or slave.
If the Dominant is crafty, or knows a craftsman, they will have the collar custom-made.
When collaring in a day-to-day context, the Dominant can have the submissive kneel in front of them to put on their collar as part of their ritual.
Some collars are intended to be worn all the time, while others are kept on for the duration of a scene.
The collar symbolizes the relationship between D/s, M/s, etc, relationships.
Many times a public collar is something more subtle and socially appropriate, like a fashionable choker, a necklace, anklet, etc.
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