In this post, we go over some common DDLG rules for littles. But first, let’s briefly go over what the DDLG dynamic is about.
Those of you who believe there is a link between DDLG and pedophilia should conduct extensive research. The DDLG kink has nothing to do with liking children.
It is simply making room for a person to access their ‘little space,’ a place where the stresses of adult life can be put aside and simple pleasures can be relished. This occurs in the context of a BDSM Dom/sub power dynamic.
Through actions and words, the DDLG dynamic helps with recapturing some of the joy of childlike wonder.
They can still act as adults, but they want someone they can rely on for assistance, someone who can provide the safety and protection that an older person might provide IF they needed it.
Common DDLG Rules for Littles
Here are some common DDLG rules for littles in different contexts.
DDLG general rules
- Without Daddy’s permission, no speaking to strangers.
- When you go to a restaurant, Daddy will select your drink.
- When you go out to eat, show Daddy three items on the menu that you like the look of. Daddy will decide which one you will eat.
- When you’re out and about, stick close to Daddy. There will be no straying.
DDLG Housework Regulations
These rules are more in line with the submissive slave style of BDSM, but I prefer my little to be more teenage than super young, and also be interested in being fifty percent slave girl for me.
- Every morning, make your bed.
- Every week on Sunday morning, the bedding is changed.
- On weekends, prepare breakfast for Daddy.
- Iron Daddy’s shirts so he’ll have some for work the next week.
- Before going to bed, lay out Daddy’s clothes for the next day.
- Daddy’s shirts should be hung up after he takes them off to avoid creases.
- Before you both leave for work, pack a lunch for yourself and Daddy.
- When Daddy gets home, give him a drink.
DDLG Rules for Bedtime
- Bedtime was made compulsory. Make sure you’re in bed and the lights are turned off by 11 p.m.
- Every day, read for thirty minutes before going to bed.
- Before going to bed, charge Daddy’s phone.
- Make sure your phone is set to silent.
- You are not permitted to use your phone thirty minutes before going to bed.
- Sleep naked or in your pjs and a cute tee.
- Every night, say a prayer before going to bed.
- Before going to bed, turn on your nightlight.
- Make sure your hot water bottle is full and ready to keep you warm.
- There can only be one stuffy in the bed at a time.
Rules for Daddy’s satisfaction
- Wear a short skirt and top to the house, or whatever outfit you’ve planned ahead of time.
- When you’re out in public, make an effort to look appealing to Daddy. Wearing a cute outfit that you know he enjoys seeing you in is part of this.
- When you’re inside with Daddy, put on a house collar.
- When going out in public, wear a day collar.
- Only panties and a warm top are permitted when relaxing at home.
- When sharing a bed with Daddy, sleep naked.
- Always seek permission from Daddy before sitting on the couch or in a chair.
- Sit at Daddy’s feet unless he invites you to join him on the grown-up furniture.
- Make sure Daddy always has a full water bottle with him. Fill it up as needed throughout the day.
Sexual DDLG guidelines
- Always seek Daddy’s permission before sexually touching yourself.
- Orgasm with Daddy’s permission.
- On Daddy’s request, put on a sexy show.
- You should be on your knees by the front door to greet Daddy when he comes home.
- You should undress and wait naked on all fours on the bed when instructed.
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