Here is a list of some Dom sub movies and documentaries to check out if you’re interested in kink, but want to take a “para”-approach to things.
- Secretary A dom-sub tale for the times.
- Nine Songs Aggressively corporal.
- Nymphomaniac Vol. I The first step is admitting you have a problem.
- Nymphomaniac Vol. II The second step is using the problem as the solution.
- Bound When the submissive is still in control, you’re getting it right.
- Basic Instinct You know the scene.
- 9 ½ Weeks Basinger pushed more limits than 50 Shades with her pinky finger 30 years ago.
- Bitter Moon Twisted and involving a married couple very into BDSM.
- A Dangerous Method A sado-masochistic period piece.
- Maîtresse Involves a professional French dominatrix.
- Belle Du Jour A bored housewife decides to become a prostitute in this awesomely mature exploration of BDSM.
- In the Realm of the Senses Released in 1976 and sensored for many years thereafter. A former prostitute turns maid and gets involved with her employer.
- Matador Featuring a murderess who is into killing her prey during sex.
- Crimes of Passion A woman moonlights as a call girl with an array of clients with varying desires. More trashy than artsy.
- Flower and Snake the Japanese wear their kink on their sleeve.
- Romance Experimental and unapologetic.
- The Story of O A 1975 cult classic and exactly what it sounds like. Expect blatant BDSM, from blindfolding to whipping.
- The Night Porter Controversial for more than just its sexual explicitness.
- Venus in Fur Directed by Polanski and dark as hell.
- Tokyo Decadence Brace yourself for dominance, humiliation and, surprisingly, an excellent score.
- Crash A look into violent fetishism.
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
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Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.
Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
