Feederism, or Food Play, is an eating kink about affecting the body with food.
This involves eating, inserting, or being around food in a sexual or power dynamic context.
Food Play Terms
| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| Encourager/Feeder | The person giving the food (Top) |
| Gainer/Feedee | The person eating the food (bottom) |
| Ball Belly | The belly shape people may be looking to have from this form of play |
| Submissive Gainers | Those who give over the control of their diet to someone else |
| Bloating | Eating food to make the stomach appear or feel larger |
| Padding | Wearing cushions to appear bigger |
| Squashing | When the gainer is squashing their food, partners, and objects in play with the weight gained |
| Inflation | Making someone expand by feeding them liquids, food, or air |
| Splooshing | Getting someone “dirtied”; covered in food in this context |
Ways to Practice Food Play
One way to practice food play is to lay food on a person’s naked body. Aside of someone being nude, it doesn’t have to get any more sexual than that.
I’ve witnessed a slave having sushi eaten off of her body and nothing more sexual was done to her during dinner. This did feel like like an intimate experience irregardless.
Mukbangs are also a sort of food play where you watch someone eat food. This is another intimate experience and can be considered sensation play when it has an ASMR aspect.
This sort of food play can also be a power dynamic. The same way a dog watches their owner eat food, without knowing whether it will get to indulge in its owner’s scraps.
Is Food Play Ethical? In moderation and with consent, it would appear that feederism is fine and ethical.
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