In this post, we go over some feng shui tips you can use to bring sexy energy into the bedroom.
Feng Shui is an Ancient Chinese philosophy that is a continuous, long-term practice that will help move you in a direction to improve your inner and outer life.
Feng Shui is creating an intentional space for yourself. This involves colors, furniture and its positioning, as well as knowledge of energies and elements.
If you’re interested in learning more about Feng Shui outside of a sexual context, go here.
For example, most single people will have their beds in their bedrooms up against a wall. This placement is telling the World, and your psyche, that you are not creating space for others to join you in bed.
Place your bed to have view of the door and have accessibility on both sides. This makes your bed more inviting while also putting it in the Feng Shui “command” position.
By having matching nightstands on either side of the bed, you are harmonizing the room and bringing in balance. The psyche will want to fix the imbalance of having only one person in the bed, and will unconsciously seek to bring another person into the bedroom.
You also want to make sure that any furniture where people get together, such as a table, is made sturdy. If a dining table is made of weak material, you are inviting nervous energy into your home.
The purpose of your bedroom is relaxation and intimacy. This means you want to focus more on decor, or “yin” energy. You do this by having softer colors in your room to invite calming energies, as well as remove furniture or artwork that is “sharp”.
Bring smooth fabrics into the bedroom for invite more sensual and lush energy. You can also add more rich textures by placing a throw blanket at the end of your bed.
Add things like candles, incense, rose quartz, plants, to invite more passionate and relationship energy.
Avoid the following:
- Keeping broken or old items is telling your psyche that you will “make do”, instead teach your mind abundance by throwing out worn items to make space for the new
- Don’t keep items from failed relationships, this can be keeping energy stale or negative in your home
- Remove clutter that’s in the room, or hidden under the bed, or else you keep precious energy trapped where it can’t be utilized
- Move family photos, or other images with “staring eyes”, to another room; this invites others to pry into your intimate life and privacy
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