Hanky Code in the BDSM & Gay Community

Hanky Code is a way to identify interests among members of the Community.

ColorMeaning
BlackSadomasochism
BlueAnal penetration
Brown satinKnife play, cutting
Dark greenDaddy/boy player
GreyBondage
LavenderDrag queens
Light pinkDildos
Lime greenLet’s get dinner
RedFisting
WhiteMasturbation, handjobs
YellowWater sports
ColorMeaning
BeigeMilitary
Charcoal grayBondage top
CoralFoot worship
Forest greenUniforms
Hot pinkDildo with reciprocation
Hunter greenMilitary top
Kelly greenHustler
LemonButch
MaroonCutting
MauveNipple play
Navy blueFucking
OrangeAnything goes
PeachAnalingus
PeriwinkleBlow job
PewterPiercing
PlumLeather
PurplePiercing top
RaspberryCock sucking
RoseFist fucking
Royal blueFucking top
RustChains
SalmonToe sucking
Sky blueOral top
TanScat top
TealTeasing
TurquoiseRimming
VioletDildo
White pearlsGroup sex
Yellow pearlsSolo sex
Zebra printAnything

Here are some resources I recommend:

DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.

Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.

Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.

Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.

Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)

Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)

Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)

The links above are NOT affiliate links. The product links are the exact same products I happily own from trusted vendor Sinful Goods.

Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.

Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.

DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.

Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.

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