In this post, we go over tips on how to choke your partner sexually and safely.
How to Choke Her Sexually & Safely
Erotic asphyxiation has long been associated with the most extreme sado-maso fetishes in people’s minds and on the Internet, which does not bode well.
Even as it becomes more democratic, breath play remains a dangerous sexual activity. Here are a few safety precautions to keep everything safe and enjoyable.
- Don’t choke yourself if you’re alone
Erotic asphyxiation is not always performed in a multi-person relationship.
It can be used alone during masturbation, but tragic cases demonstrate the dangers of unsupervised use.
If the thought of placing your eulogy under the sign “asphyxiation by hanging associated with autoerotic activity” does not appeal to you, it is better to be at least two in an emergency.
- Have confidence in the person who strangles or is strangled
The most important thing to have good sex is always communication (eeeeeet protection against STIs and contraception when necessary , as well as good oral hygiene ).
When it comes to playing choke, we can say without getting too wet that communication is even VITAL.
For this reason and many others, practicing with a partner you trust and are comfortable talking to is recommended.
- Establish an alarm signal for the strangled person
Setting an emergency code between partners is an excellent way to respect each other’s boundaries and ensure their safety.
This could include banging on the bed, covering your eyes, or using a small bell/doorbell placed nearby.
However, if the strangled partner is already losing consciousness, as happens to freedivers who are unaware they are fainting…
The survival reflex steps in. The agreed-upon sign could eventually turn into a large pie in your face. So ease up, crescendo, and maintain eye contact with the strangled (no cushion or blanket to hide the face).
- Choke on the sides of the throat, not in the middle
Playing with your partner’s neck can be as simple as gently applying your hand to the affected area.
Whatever the desired intensity, measuring the pressure exerted on the front of the throat is necessary because it conceals a fragile structure, as this deep news item recently demonstrated.
Instead of breaking his vagal nerve, you will use suggestive gestures in the “If I wanted, I could” mode.
- Erotic strangulation, a story of levels
Whether it is anal sex or BDSM games, it is always a good idea to proceed in stages.
To gently test the limits of your pleasure or your partner, it is best to begin with your hands to best manage the pressure on the neck and stop quickly if necessary.
- Do not hold your breath while choking
When someone is attempting to strangle you to death, saving air is useful, but it is best avoided during consensual sex.
Continued (attempted) breathing allows your partner to monitor your state and determine where you are. It also makes exciting noises.
Finally, I strongly advise you not to play these games after consuming alcohol or drugs.
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
The links above are NOT affiliate links. The product links are the exact same products I happily own from trusted vendor Sinful Goods.
Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.
Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
