In this post, we talk about how to have long distance kinky relationships.
Understand that since you and your partner aren’t together very often, every text message, Facetime, etc, is very valuable.
But it’s much better to use video chat like Zoom or Facetime because text messages are very easy to misinterpret, and the last thing you need are miscommunication problems in a relationship that relies tremendously on communication.
You’ll find that lots of the bonding experiences you have with your partner will rely on giving and receiving communication.
Here are some examples of that:
- Daily text messages
- Weekly emails
- Evening calls
- Mailing physical letters
- Playing videogames and Discord
Absolutely DO NOT play any mind games. There is literally no space for that to be had in a long distance relationship.
When it comes to physical intimacy, there are some things you can do to keep your sexuality under control until you reunite with your partner:
- Phone sex
- Send nudes
- Masturbate
- Mail used undies
What if it’s an open long distance relationship? An open relationship allows you and your partner to fulfill yourselves sexually, during those times you aren’t physically close by.
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
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Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.
Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
