In this post, we go over how to make a woman squirt.
Every woman produces ejaculatory fluid. It differs from urine in that Skene’s gland produces it at some point during orgasm. Does this mean that every woman can squirt like a fountain? Not. Most women are unable to.
For most women, this glandular fluid manifests as a wet spot in bed. Some women emit a visible wet spray or squirt. Because the glandular openings (located near the urethral opening) are deeper inside the vagina, most women produce a small amount of fluid with each movement of the fingers, penis, or toy. Other women continue to produce little fluid.
Squirting is sometimes associated with orgasms, but this is not always the case. Women can produce this fluid before, during, or after an orgasm. She only requires enough fluid in the urethral sponge and the proper amount of pressure on her G-spot. Pressure can be applied by her muscles, fingers, a toy, her penis, or even a specific position.
When it comes to sex, a woman has no way of responding. Some women have much control over when they squirt, while others have none. I want to be clear that you are perfect if you produce almost no fluid, a wet spot, or squirt like a fountain.
Now that you’re aware of the healthy response variables, you can increase your (or your partner’s) chances of squirting. Of course, the most important goal should always be to have fun. Play and experiment with variations on this technique to see what the female body is capable of.
How to Make a Woman Squirt
- First and foremost, if you’re nervous about body fluids and sex, pee before playing to calm your nerves.
- Gather your equipment. A curved toy will be useful if you are a woman playing alone. You can use your fingers and toys as her partner if there are two exploring. Lube protects vaginal tissue, allowing for longer, warmer play sessions.
- Slowly wake her up. The glandular tissue that produces female urine is embedded in the G-spot, also known as the urethral sponge or female prostate. It takes time for the glands to fill with fluid and erectile tissue to form. In other words, you want her heart to be pounding hard. Turn on her. Kiss, touch, penetrate, and do whatever makes you feel good.
- Massage her G-spot when she’s excited. Your fingers are an ideal tool. Insert two fingers about two knots deep, pointed towards the belly button, and deeply massage the tissue, pushing the belly button towards the belly button and pulling the tissue towards the vaginal opening as you massage. Most women are under more pressure than you might think, so listen to her advice. You could also try a curved toy, such as the Oui G-Spot Slimline, or a curved glass toy. It is a reliable and pleasurable massage tool. Swing the bulbous tip towards the navel, or make short in and out strokes.
- Encourage her to concentrate while remaining calm. As you massage the G-spot, have her pump your muscles rhythmically. As you relax all of her muscles, ask her to take a deep breath. Women may hold and hold because they are afraid to pee or the sensation becomes too strong. Encourage her to give in to her feelings.
- When she feels the need to relax her muscles and push out. Pulling the clitoral hood back towards the navel will expose the granular openings and allow you to inhale a more obvious source or spurt. She can squirt from here.
Amazing if these techniques work. Otherwise, keep attempting. This practice focuses on her presence in her body, connecting with sensations, and learning to relax and let go. Even if she never squirts, these are all good habits that should increase her pleasure.
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