Let’s go over how to pack a kinky overnight bag for when you are planning to spend the night getting busy with your partner.
Kinky Sex Bag Essentials
- The backpack/bag/duffelbag
- Condoms
- Lube
- Water
- First Aid Kit + Spiff Bag
- Rope (+ Safety Scissors)
- Mouth Gag
- Comfy clothes
- BDSM Playlist
- Dildo / Vibrator
- Cockring
- Lingerie / Outfits
- Towel / Cum Rag
- Harness
- Restraints / Handcuffs
- Drippable Candles
- Aftercare Supplies
Obviously this is just an example of a fairly thorough, yet basic. kink bag. It is custom to you.
Personally, I use the D&P BDSM Package kept in my travel backpack or sackpack for all the essentials.
I also bring wet wipes in case I gotta poop. I’m not an animal—I don’t wipe my ass with toilet paper and walk around pretending like my ass is actually clean.
But I digress.
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
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Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.
Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
