Have you ever heard of rimming?
Tips on how to perform rimming in BDSM
- Anilingus Foreplay
Before diving into the asshole, you can massage, knead and kiss the buttocks. After biting the fleshy part of the cheeks, you can head for the asshole, but you have to go back before you come into contact with it. Let your partner feel your breath on their skin, genitals and anus. You can lick the cheeks before heading to the asshole.
- Taking shapes with the tongue
Remember that the tongue can be used flat for a softer and wider surface or pointed and taut. Tap the wide side of your tongue against your partner’s anus to feel good, while curling it in to insert can do the trick. Pay attention to your partner’s reactions or ask which technique he prefers.
- Language techniques
Techniques can include going up and down, side to side, in a circle, kissing, sucking, and even gently using your teeth. Try making an 8 with your tongue to change things up.
- A cool breeze
Don’t forget your breath either. If you put your lips flat, you can blow a stream of cool air over your partner’s asshole. A wider mouth produces warmer breath.
- Also use your fingers
Your fingers can be as useful as your tongue for ass licking, though (anal fingering tips here). You can place them on either side of the anus and tap your tongue against your partner’s asshole. You can also continue massaging or kneading their buttocks. Tips for prostate massage.
- And your hands
Using your hands, you can separate your partner’s cheeks for better access or squeeze them together to change the feel.
- reach out
Remember to include your partner’s genitals. While you eat ass, you can reach out to him and stroke his testicles or penis (and many men like that).
You can even suck his balls before returning to his anus.
What will be the next step? – You don’t have to lick him for an extended period or until he reaches orgasm. Butt eating can be used as a prelude to pegging or toy use.
You may notice that your partner’s butt needs to be massaged to eat ass properly. You can spread your partner’s buttocks apart if you have free hands. However, you can request assistance to keep your hands free.
Anal sex can be a good warm-up for anal sex, which can’t hurt. Is anal sex painful? You can help to alleviate the discomfort.
- Positions for successful anal licking
Knowing how to eat ass isn’t just a matter of technique. Finding the right position is also important for everyone’s comfort. The following positions can be used for butt eating:
- Kneel on the floor or sit on a piece of furniture while your partner is standing
- Kneel or sit behind your partner on the bed when in the doggy style position
- Lie between your partner’s legs when they’re lying on the bed with their legs up (a pillow under your hips can make it easier for you to get into your bed)
- 69 positions
You can place a pillow under your knees for any position that might get tiring or stimulate your partner with a pillow. Memory foam is ideal for this because it does not compress.
Some anal sex positions work well if you simply kneel behind your man.
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