In this post, we talk about how to use a vibrator for orgasms.
How to have an orgasm with a vibrator
1. Start above your underwear
Let’s start by playing over or under our sheets or underwear. Its different textures will make it more fun and let you feel new things without overstimulating your clitoris, a common mistake that can limit your experience. Rest and have fun!
2. Don’t forget the lips
The clitoris goes through the inside of the labia major, the “folds” or lips, and can be satisfying to caress with a toy.
3. Fool yourself
When you’re getting close to the climax, make it less intense instead of making it more intense. If you know that a certain rhythm makes you peak, try switching it with another rhythm. If you give your body time to enjoy a roller coaster of feelings, the last party will be memorable.
You can also use it from afar with your partner’s help. With the mobile app that some models come with, you can make your boy turn on the vibrator and turn it off without him touching you. Or, even better, bring the vibrator to dinner and “play” with your partner.
4. Move over it
Lay on your stomach and put the vibrator under you. Move your hips and the vibrator at the same time so you don’t overreach. You can also explore more erogenous areas.
5. Use it with all parts of your body
You can use a vibrator on all the following areas:
- clitoris
- vagina
- nipples
- cheeks
- etc
6. Use it directly on the clitoris
The most common way to use a vibrator is by moving it back and forth or in circles on the clitoris.
7. Move on to penetration
Vibrators can also stimulate the G-spot. For this, the best thing to do is to use a curved vibrator and move it as if you were going toward the navel or move it in and out to make it feel like you are penetrating your partner. You decide.
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