A mouth gag is something you put in somebody’s mouth to give them a sense of restriction and/or bondage.
A ball gag is one type of mouth gag. You can also use a piece of cloth as a gag, or a bit like a horse.
How To Use A Ball Gag
First you wanna take the ball gag and slowly insert it into your partner’s mouth. This way the ball is in between the top and bottom teeth.
The belt part of the ball gag goes around your partner’s face and head. Then you seal the clasp so the ball gag is safely and securely fitted in your partner’s mouth.
Ball Gag Tips & Tricks
If you are wearing the gag, you may be uncomfortable at first and you might also drool. This is part of the novelty of using gags.
Swallowing can be difficult, so you will drool all over yourself. Again, that’s part of the appeal, so don’t be embarassed.
If you find wearing the gag to be too uncomfy, use your non-verbal safe word to have your partner recognize that it’s time to stop and take the gag out.
If you want to take things to another level, with your partner’s permission, you can put duct tape over the gag.
If you want to go even further, you can place their underwear over the gag, and duct tape over both their undies and gag.
Encourage the wearer to breathe through their nose.
Don’t wear a gag for too long, it can be a lot for the body.
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