Fisting is inserting your fist in someone’s ass or vagina for sexual pleasure.
The following are some questions we’ve gotten from readers:
Fisting hurts? While it hurts initially, after you get used to it, it become just pleasurable.
Fisting is dangerous? It’s not inherently dangerous as long as you do it carefully. Make sure you are communicating with your bottom. If you use desensitizing lube, know that you still need to feel what’s going on so you don’t end up hurt.
Fisting makes you loose? Your butthole will snap back when you’re younger. Over time you can be more prone to loosening up, especially with larger objects.
How to take a fist? Start small, use some desensitization lube or oil, and don’t push yourself.
How to clean? You can use a douche, keep a clean diet a day or two prior, use hot water showers, etc.
What do you feel for to go deeper? The butthole has a way of sucking you in when you get enough of your hand in there. Just be careful and don’t push limits.
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
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Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.
Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
