Sissification, or Sissy Play, is a roleplay for men who want to humiliated through feminization and dressing like a woman.
It makes sense that sissy play would be considered sexist because it implies that being a woman is a lesser form of being—however, this form of play is the opposite.
Despite it being a form of humiliation play, sissification is giving these men a chance to be who they want while being acknowledged the way they like.
Instead of drag queens who are applauded for dressing like a woman, these men who are sissified are looking to be humiliated instead—that’s the emotional stimulation they are seeking.
The sexist assumption comes from the line of thinking that a molested man feels like a woman, and a molested woman feels like an object. Sissification, at its core, does not follow this line of thinking.
Crossdressing vs Sissification
| Type of Dressing | Description |
|---|---|
| Crossdressing | A form of self-expression where one wears clothing that is contrasexual to their gender assigned at birth. Can be done willingly. |
| Sissification | A form of play in BDSM where a Dom enforces consensual non-consent for a man to be feminized and dressed like a woman. |
Why do people like sissy play?
Sissies are the roleplayers in sissy play who use sissification to help them get in touch with their femininity and feelings of vulnerability.
By having their Dominant demand their feminization, the sissy is free from the shame of their interest in crossdressing and instead can be ashamed of the punishment.
For some, it’s not that deep, but for others, there’s a perverse enjoyment in playing victim—a deeper form of “funishment”.
How To Find A Partner For Sissy Play
Try out FetLife. There are tons of people out there who share the same kink. However, I should point out that the subs in this form of play heavily outnumber the amount of Dominants.
Play with your Dominant. By this I mean that it might be easier to get yourself a general Dom/Domme and tell them that you’re into sissification. This way you don’t have to hunt for a sissy Dominant and you can play with someone you already trust.
Reach out to a professional. By hiring a professional Dom/Domme you will get a chance to scratch that itch. This isn’t going to be new to them so there’s no shame in it. Especially since their job is to make a safe space for all kinks.
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