Here are tips for a Dom/sub Long Distance Relationship:
1. Establish a (Flexible) Plan
WRITE your plan – including PLAN Bs for everything – after you’ve discussed the specifics of your long-distance situation. Keep in mind, however, that the beginning of your journey will be bumpy, and your strategy will need to change as new circumstances arise.
2. Make Use of the Available Technology
You can keep in contact with your partner using apps like:
- Messenger
- Facetime
- What’s App
- etc
This way you can know what your partner has been up to, see their face, hear their voice, etc.
You can also write love letters to your partner if you want to have a more personal touch.
3. Write in A Journal
Make your submissive keep a journal of their daily activities, both in their regular lives and in their BDSM lives. This is not only a great communication tool, but it also gives Doms valuable insight into any potential problems.
4. Engage in Virtual Sex Using Remote Control Vibrator
You could put your dominant partner in charge of your long-distance BDSM relationship in this way. Using a virtual sexting setup, you can feel the connection with your partner as if you were actually making love to them.
What are the best app-controlled sex toys for BDSM long-distance relationships? Well, the kink community has a lot of options for you to choose from. Some vibrators, automatic masturbators, and **long-distance** couple sex toys that send your movement to each other can stimulate your g-spot and c-spot.
5. Keeps Them Active
- Make a list of tasks for your sub to complete – this will keep them busy and allow you to text or photograph proof of completion.
- Participate in their submissive rituals or routines.
- Encourage them to keep a blog (this can tie in with their journal).
- Make them consider the consequences and benefits of their actions.
- Surprise them with activities or tasks at inopportune times.
- Continue to provide whatever “education” the sub receives.
- Maintain their fitness and health regimens.
- Make them wear a wearable sex toy that you can control with your phone.
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
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Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.
Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
