A MMF Threesome is a sexual three-way intercourse between two males and one female.
If you are a woman who wants to experience a MMF threesome, the first thing you want to do is talk to your male partner about it.
Keep in mind that it seems that the immature male ego can be very fragile. Thinking back to when I was a young man, if my partner ever told me that she wanted to have a threesome with another man, I would (1) shoot it down and (2) force myself to play it cool while worrying that she would look for opportunities behind my back.
This insecurity comes from the idea that you are “losing” your girl to another guy. And it’s a process to get over. For example, you might need a few MMF threesome experiences before your male partner viscerally understands that he has nothing to worry about and that he’s not going to lose you over a sexual experience with another person.
Another insecurity could be insecurity over penis size. Understand that a threesome is about three people connecting, and it’s much, much less about genitalia. Check out the following if you’re struggling with penis issues:
- What is the Ideal Penis Size?
- Does Size Matter?
- How Big is Too Big?
- How To Cure Erectile Dysfunction
- 4 Types of Sexual Anxiety (& How To Fix It)
Understand that a MMF threesome is more about male pleasure than it is about the female’s. On her end, there’s a lot more happening at once that she gets to attend to. Also, this isn’t some degradation like you see in porn, it’s just sex shared with an extra person. Think of it less about using and objectifying, think of it as two people making one person finish, while getting pleasured as well.
When it comes to finding another male to join you both, consider looking at social media or Tinder. On a dating app you can put your intentions in the bio.
Another approach is to meet another male to join you out in the real world. However, because our society is heteronormative, you might find it difficult.
There are also other ways to play within a MMF context, such as:
That said, I should point out that as a man, if you are witnessing another man having sex with a woman, you’re body will naturally want to compete by getting more aroused in order to inject more sperm into her body.
If you have a breeding kink, then you already have a sense of the appeal that’s going on. The difference is that there is an actual “competitor” present. This is why sex involves a lot of thrusting, the movement is creating a suction-like effect to pull away the other person’s sperm and give your sperm a tactical advantage when it comes to impregating her.
That said, if you want some biological validation, your sperm output is much more important than penis size.
Some of the appeal for men who are sharing their partner with another man, is that thanks to his mirror neurons, he’s able to empathize and experience the other man’s pleasure vicariously. This is why porn works so well, despite the people being behind a screen.
When it comes to MMF positions, here are some notable examples:
- Both males are eating the girl out, which gets the males acquainted much more easily
- The males taking turns fingering her, kissing her, massaging each other, giving handies
- The female is kneeling between both males and pleasuring their penises
- The males are in a scissoring position so that their penises are close to each other and the female can attempt to cram both in her mouth, or play with them however
- Double penetration where one male is being ridden by the female, while she’s bending over to let the other male do doggy style; this can mean anal-vaginal penetration, or a two-sausage vaginal penetration
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
Submissive Journal: 365 Daily Journal Prompts will help you develop your emotional awareness, build your kinky relationships, as well as explore your submissive self-image and sensual desires.
Danger & Play BDSM Package includes handcuffs, mouth gag, kink paddle, collar and leash, nipple clamps, blindfold, shibari rope, and much more.
Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
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Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.
Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
