Bimbofication is a form of play where someone is transformed into a hypersexualized object for other people’s pleasure.
This form of play is very similar to dollification. However, in dollification, there is a power exchange between Maker and doll.
The Maker can order their doll to act and look any way they want, that isn’t exclusive to being completely sexualized. This dynamic demands that the doll is highly submissive and has strong internal enslavement.
Bimbofication has no power exchange. Instead the bimbo is transformed into a highly sexual plaything.
Objectification is a key component of bimboification because the bimbo is being made in the image of a sex object. This makes bimbofication go well with other forms of play such as humiliation and degradation.
Bimbofication isn’t an exclusively BDSM concept, it is a standalone kinky fetish that can lend itself towards sugar baby and MMF threesome territory.
How To Do Bimbofication
Bimbofication involves a person appearing as if they are oozing with sexuality. Ignoring the societal connotation, you can use the descriptor word “slutty” to get a pretty strong idea of what the bimbo image is.
This can include makeup, long hair that’s been done, revealing, skimpy, tight outfits, etc.
Although everyone has an idea of what the “slutty coquette” archetype looks like, it varies mildly across the cultures. However, the main features of busty, air headed, escort/prostitute-esque demeanor are typically consistent.
The mental involves being relaxed and apathetic, where the only things that matter are good looks, getting attention, and getting your desires fulfilled.
Go on Instagram and check out profiles that you would consider “bimbo” accounts, or similar, and take note of their demeanor and clothing; take inspiration and buy similar pieces
Explore sissification if the bimbo is a male who is looking to explore that side of themselves
A warning to impressionable young people
Keep in mind that in the context of BDSM, this is all for roleplay. You are playing a part, and this role includes being shallow and allowing yourself to be sexually used.
That said—
Some of you reading this might be on the developmental stage where this just seems “normal”.
I’m here to tell you that “normal”, or what’s “popular”, doesn’t mean healthy.
When I say this, I’m referring to people who aren’t as self-aware and aim for their own self-bimbofication as part of their “bad bitch” or “maneater” era.
I’m all about owning your femininity and having a healthy perspective on sex.
Right now I’m addressing those who are “going along to get along” by doing what is “popular”, aka socially engineered consent.
A great example of bimbofication would be women who are on OnlyFans. These women (and some men) are hypersexualizing themselves to make money, or get other benefits. (I’m not knocking them, if I could make money posting myself I would)
But coming from a healthy and mature standpoint, I want to share a lesson that everyone should know:
Overt sexuality is coldness in reality.
If you think this sentiment doesn’t fit into a BDSM kink blog, then you’re not acknowledging the amount of connection and emotional awareness that comes built-in with the BDSM community; SSC, RACK, Limits, aftercare, etc.
Coldness isn’t a quality I would attribute to the kink community.
Coldness is inherent to the “relationship” between OnlyFans creators (& similar) and their customers. These customers are already so cold, they are willing to pay for pseudo-warmth.
And it’s impossible to exploit others without exploiting yourself.
You can’t be cold towards others, without being cold towards yourself. The psyche won’t allow for that.
So I’m not gonna tell you how to live your life. Do what you want.
But that’s a thorough explanation for why bimbofication is something you should do as a means for self-expression of a part of your personality. It mustn’t be the end goal of who you want to be (that’s just sad; yes, that’s me judging poor character).
Don’t be so naive that you repress yourself to make your own personality one-sided, likely due to some bad breakup, being chronically online influenced, or not being aware of developmental stages.
The good news is that if you understood what was said, and can take it into consideration, you’ll be fine. It’s the people who find the prior passages condescending that will cause harm to themselves and others (these people will find any analysis into their behaviors or line of thinking to be condescending, and in turn, act in spite).
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