Are you wondering what is boot blacking in BDSM?
Bootblacking is a popular BDSM service, especially among Leather communities. Cleaning, polishing, and occasionally spit-blacking a pair of boots, usually those of a Dominant or Master/Mistress, is required.
Bootblacking can be used for a variety of reasons, including professional service, submission, military-style uniform play, boot-worship, and as a ritual way to start a scene.
Subs and bottoms use bootblacking to show their respect, appreciation, and submission to their top or Dom. Bootblacking can also be done on a “pick-up” basis at play parties in a bootblack chair.
Because of the emphasis on leather accessories and clothing, bootblacking is especially popular in the leather community (both old and new).
A bootblack typically has his or her own bootblacking equipment. At Leather conventions, there are even bootblacking competitions.
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