Post-Orgasm Torture is when the Top continues the stimulate the bottom’s genitals past orgasm to the point that the sensations become “tortuous”.
This can involve the Top using their own genitals, or toys, to force stimulation upon the bottom beyond orgasm.
In power exchange, the Dominant can demand that the submissive self-pleasure to the point of post-orgasm torture as well.
How this post-orgasm torture plays out depends on the bottom’s threshold and the intensity the Top applies.
Why People Like Post Orgasm Torture
After a climactic orgasm, your body starts its Refractory Phase. Otherwise known as the cooldown period.
During this cooldown, your adrenaline goes down alongside your pleasure sensations.
Adrenaline plays a huge role in BDSM and kink because it’s the buffer that helps you play through intense sensations.
Essentially, the post-orgasm torture is pleasuring you to the point that they are “rubbing you the wrong way”.
This overstimulation can be a fun way for Tops to torture their partners as a form of funishment.
3 Tips for Post Orgasm Torture
Make use of remote vibrators. I recommend everyone try out a discreet remote vibrator with their partner. It’s very funny to see her squirm beyond orgasm in public (like a sex dungeon).
Focus on the sweet spots. This means giving the clitoris, or tip of the penis, extra attention.
Masturbate Non-stop. You need to keep up the momentum and feel for the right intensity of the pain.
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