Does size matter? Yes and no.
Whether size matter definitely depends on the woman.
When you are dealing with shallow women, yes it matters. The same way a shallow man doesn’t give a damn about a woman’s personality, but instead only cares about her tits and ass.
If you are dealing with mature and relatively healthy people, a single physical trait is not going to matter—
Especially when you consider that only 18% of women experience orgasm from penetrative sex alone. This means that most women resort to clitoral orgasm, which is something you can deliver even without a big penis.
Whether someone’s penis is too big is a more common issue than if it’s too small. Pain is a real issue.
Understand that a large penis is a novelty similar to how big boobs and a thicc ass are just body parts.
That said—
The average erect penis is 5.1 to 5.5 inches (12.95 to 14cm).
How I Got Over Penis Size
Back when I was probably 14 or 16 or some teen age, I decided to measure my penis.
When I took my measurement, I felt bad about what I got. I intuitively knew it wasn’t impressive.
But then I realized that measuring your dick from the bottom doesn’t make any sense since your balls are in the way.
So then I measured my dick again from the side. I felt good because my length was better than I thought, but then I checked the average length on the internet and came up short.
That, made me sad.
But then I looked up how to properly measure your penis. Turns out I did it wrong again. You’re supposed to measure it from the top and put the ruler against your pubic area as a base.
My length was even better than before!
I was happy, and before I even let myself overthink, I realized—
“No matter what size it is, I’m just gonna wish it were bigger anyways”
And within 10 or 15 minutes of feeling like I was on an emotional rollercoaster, I taught myself a valuable lesson.
Be happy with what you got, because it could always be worse.
I’ve never had an insecurity about it since.
It also helps that ever since I started having sex, girls would always say it was “bigger”, by which I believe they mean thicker, and my length has never been a complaint.
With all that in mind, just be happy with what you have. Because guess what? You can always improve. Whether through jelqing or with a male enhancement tool like the one recommended below.
If you want to get bigger, then work on it cuz it’s possible. Regardless, at the very least be happy with what you got—cuz it could always be worse.
Here are some resources I recommend:
DOM SUB 101 teaches you essential basic and advanced BDSM concepts, such as DomSpeak, power exchange, finding a partner, poly jealousy, primal play, contracts, worksheets and so on.
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Classic Black Flogger is an incredibly versatile 5-star, impact play toy for both beginners and seasoned players.
Discreet Remote Control Vibrator 3 is the funnest toy to have your partner wear for getting them hot and bothered anytime and anywhere. (Read review)
Rose 2-in-1 Vibrator is easily one of the most pleasurable experiences she’s looking to have. (Read reviews)
Low Temp Wax Play Candles are incredible for very intimate, sensual experience that you and your partner will never forget. (Read guide)
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Bathmate Hydromax is the safest and most effective male enhancement product I’ve ever used to increase my length and girth. Read more here.
Relationship Subliminal for self-hypnotism will help you change your unconscious behavior, gain better relationships, and attract like-minded people and partners.
DOM SUB 101 (Lite) is an affordable alternative to the ever-growing DOM SUB 101. This is for curious kinksters who are on a budget.
Inner Shadow Work is my main website that goes over psychology, spirituality, emotional maturity, consciousness, etc. If you’re interested, click here.
