Have you ever wondered why hair pulling is so kinky?
Although we always clarify that, in matters of sex, as in tastes, genders are broken; it is true that certain things apply to a large majority of the sexually active population; for example: foreplay for women or oral sex for men.
Very few women would say that they don’t like a good foreplay and almost no man would deny the immense pleasure of a good oral sex.
Well, like those “basics”, there is something that most men are very excited about, although not all of them dare to confess it: it is about pulling their partner’s hair.
It can drive you crazy; In fact, it is one of the reasons why they enjoy the doggie position so much: because, in addition to the fantastic view, it is a position that makes this practice much easier.
Why Do They Like It So Much?
We enter here one of the most controversial topics of sex: that of dominance and submission.
And the fact is that although today there is more open talk about this type of practice, until not long ago they were still considered taboos; therefore, for all those people who felt impulses towards dominance/submission, it was very difficult to “uncover” and dare to experiment with things like BDSM.
So, pulling your partner’s hair can be small details that bring us closer to dominance practices without necessarily going into it fully or, even more so, without even having to accept that we are attracted to those things.
It is similar to giving small spankings: the man feels a small rush of domination but does not perceive that he is “crossing the limits” with his partner.
Why Some Do Not Dare To Ask For It?
However, many men do not dare to do it or even propose it to their partner because they believe it is insulting, aggressive or humiliating for women.
To begin with, both of you must consider that, when it comes to sexual play, domination is only during the practice of the game, it does not imply that it is a violent or insane relationship.
On the other hand, some men fear their partner’s reaction because some women believe that this request on the part of the man is accompanied by evil intentions to treat them as objects or to violate them.
Calm down!
Suppose they establish it as a sexual pact that does not exceed the borders of intimacy. In that case, everything remains as a fantasy, as one more detail that will add flavor to your relationship, don’t think about it anymore!
Is It For You Or Not?
The only thing you have to observe to answer this question is whether you enjoy it or not. And for this you would have to try it at least once. Some women are surprised by how exciting it is for them, and others do not find that sensation pleasant. If you are one of those who say “yes, I like it”, then forget about prejudices and enjoy it; If you decide that it is not your thing, discuss it with your partner and propose another activity that satisfies you.
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